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作節 Celebration

I think we guys must have prepared for celebrating someone’s birthday.

And you somehow do want to let birthday person be happy and taken important.

If lucky, we prepare for celebrating activity is spontaneous.

If not, we suffer in an uncomfortable situation.

In a special group, we do care about every member in the group, so we possibly celebrate birthday for each member.

I want everyone in group is equal, but it is none sense.

It depends on the attendance and popularity in group.

In group, there are some interested in do celebration.

If they only celebrate birthday depend on their preference, I think it is not fair, somehow it breaks the initial way we get together.

If we do care about the birthday celebration and think everyone is obliged to prepare a birthday party for oneself, it is not correct attitude.

Everyone is not forced to do things they do not really want to.

Plus, if we are real “friend” we do not do care about that!

Real friend do not take birthday celebration to judge friendship among them!

If you do, you disobey the initial principle about friendship.

No pressure and no suspicion is naïve, pure friendship.

But! It is difficult.

by newangle